There are many signs your girlfriend is only pretending to love you. She isn’t jealous, she doesn’t care about your future, and she won’t label the relationship. These are all big red flags that she’s just playing games. You may want to consult a relationship coach to get advice tailored to your specific situation.
10 signs she’s pretending to love you
When a woman is pretending to love you, there are a few signs to watch out for. One of the biggest signs is nagging. If she is nagging you for things like taking out the trash, making drama when you’re out with the guys, or avoiding eye contact, then she might be pretending to love you.
She won’t open up about her feelings. Women don’t like to talk about their feelings because it makes them feel vulnerable and personal. She also won’t share details about herself with you, which can also lead to arguments. She’ll also be constantly on the defensive in front of you.
Insecure or unhappy: If your girl’s social media activity is full of photos of her with other people, she may be pretending to love you. Insecure people look for outside validation and “likes” to make them feel good about themselves.
She’s not jealous
Some signs indicate that she is jealous, and some are subtle. She may seem to ignore you, or she might cross her arms, or step away. Other signs include quick blinking, a lack of eye contact, and pursed lips. These are all signs of stress or unease.
She might even mention her ex. This is usually a sign that she is jealous and trying to hang on to you. While she might not be consciously jealous, she may be comparing her current relationship with her former one, or she may be afraid of losing you to someone else.
She might also stop expressing gratitude for small gestures. She may not show you affection as much as she used to, or she might avoid showing it to you in public. She may also be quick to get angry, or she may begin nitpicking your faults. Often, this behavior comes as a result of sadness.
When it comes to physical touch, you can tell if she is pretending to love you but is not jealous. A girl who is avoiding physical contact may be ignoring you. The girl might be in a hurry or not feeling like talking to you. If this happens, don’t take it personally. Instead, think about the topics you and she discuss. If you can make her talk about things that interest her, she may find you interesting.
She doesn’t care about your future
A woman who doesn’t want to spend time with you or talk about her future plans is likely not in love with you. She might not even want to introduce you to her family and friends. She will probably even try to make you feel uncomfortable by avoiding socializing with them.
Women are often very expressive. But there are signs that indicate a woman is just pretending to love you but doesn’t care about your future. For instance, she may avoid affection when you’re not around, and she will make excuses for not talking or making up for things.
A woman who doesn’t respect you or your time alone is probably not in love. She isn’t in love with you if she isn’t concerned about your future. If you have to fight with her or if she doesn’t apologize for something she’s done, she’s not worth your time.
She won’t label a relationship
Many people confuse labeling a relationship with seriousness. But according to relationship therapist Shena Tubbs, relationship labels are more about clarity than commitment. They are also fun. The right time to label your relationship will depend on the other person’s readiness to commit.
If she has decided that she doesn’t love you, she is not ready to label the relationship. When you notice that she is withdrawing and is flirting with other men, it’s probably a sign that she is not serious about you. In addition, you’ll probably notice that she will only respond to your texts when you agree to it. It’s important to remember that not every woman likes labels, and some don’t even like to be labeled. If you see these signs in your relationship, it is probably time to move on.
The biggest sign that she is not serious about you is that she doesn’t care about the important people in your life. She also doesn’t ask you about your hobbies or interests. If she doesn’t care about these things, chances are she is pretending to love you.
She doesn’t express her feelings
A woman who is pretending to love you won’t open up to you and tell you how she really feels about you. She’ll make excuses and refuse to talk to you in public. If she doesn’t express her feelings to you, she may not be in love. She might also be playing games. In such a case, you’ll have to confront her about her actions.
If she isn’t expressing her feelings, she might be ghosting you. In this case, she may be uncaring about the relationship and is simply playing games to avoid your advances. She might also be avoiding you by not asking you for help with daily tasks. She might also be scared to express her feelings and may not want to let you know what she’s thinking.
Another sign of a woman pretending to love you when she doesn’ t express her feelings is if she’s not interested in your hobbies or interests. She may also share your interests with other people and mention how you’ll be living in the same area next year.